Articles
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Sometimes a single sentence can shift something inside you. Here you’ll find articles and podcasts that explore love and sex -
to inspire reflection, change perspective, and debunk myths.

Echte Oogappels where's the passion podcast on sex in a long relationship
Echte Oogappels – Where’s the passion? (in Dutch)
Santé loneliness in a relationship, feeling alone in a relationship
Santé – Alone together
Sivan grabs a pillow from the couch and clutches it with both hands. "I just don't really feel connected to you," she then tells her husband.
Santé planning sex how to keep sex good with busy schedules
Santé – Too busy for sex
Bobby sits in the waiting room talking to someone on her phone. As we walk up the stairs to my practice, she quickly completes her call. Once on the couch, her phone starts buzzing again.
cheating, adultery, affair, trust, relationship
Santé – One-way traffic
"I feel really guilty," Eva begins to recount. "During the whole affair, I just didn't think about it. But now that it's come out, I feel terrible about everything that happened. I can hardly sleep because of it and completely lost my appetite as well."
aftercare cuddling sex
Santé – The importance of cuddling
"I always fall asleep right after sex," Erwin says decidedly. "How exactly do you mean that?" I ask as openly as possible.
Tussen de Lakens with Daphne Gakes Jolien Spoelstra
Tussen de Lakens – The Pursuer and The Withdrawer (in Dutch)
In this episode, Daphne Gakes shares her bed with Jolien Spoelstra, sexologist with an exhilirating life. They talk about the pursuer and the withdrawer in a relationship.
Umaversity podcast monogamy relationship sex
Umaversity – Why monogamy isn’t the default
Can desire survive long-term love? What happens when your libido disappears—or never showed up in the first place?
gay porn sexual fantasies sex
Santé – Is my husband gay?
Myrrdin walks into my room differently than usual. She makes a dejected impression, whereas she always seems so cheerful otherwise.
Family friendship love form relationship
Santé – Love in a different form
Jesse and Maartje, a couple in their early 30s, report that they no longer see each other as lovers. "It just feels like that's gone," Jesse says.

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