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A column about desire for sex, what presses the brakes and what presses the accelerator?
Santé – The brakes on sex
Jens and Soraya look at me expectantly. Their sex life isn't going as they'd like, and they hope to change things with my help. "I've really tried everything," Jens begins.
Article on erectile dysfunction, erections, fear of failure, pressure, control
Santé – Erectile disfunction
"It's actually getting worse," Willem sighs midway through our conversation. "The other day she even put on some sexy lingerie and did a lap dance for me...
The value of your body, body diastasis
Santé – The value of your body
Katja sits across from me on the couch in colorful leggings en stylish sneakers. Her white athletic socks, pulled up high. "After giving birth, I did all sorts of exercises, of course. But my body didn't improve..."
Een column over eenzaamheid in een relatie
Santé – Alone together
Sivan grabs a pillow from the couch and clutches it with both hands. "I just don't really feel connected to you," she then tells her husband.
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Santé – Too busy for sex
Bobby sits in the waiting room talking to someone on her phone. As we walk up the stairs to my practice, she quickly completes her call. Once on the couch, her phone starts buzzing again.
cheating, adultery, affair, trust, relationship
Santé – One-way traffic
"I feel really guilty," Eva begins to recount. "During the whole affair, I just didn't think about it. But now that it's come out, I feel terrible about everything that happened. I can hardly sleep because of it and completely lost my appetite as well."
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Santé – The importance of cuddling
"I always fall asleep right after sex," Erwin says decidedly. "How exactly do you mean that?" I ask as openly as possible.
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Santé – Is my husband gay?
Myrrdin walks into my room differently than usual. She makes a dejected impression, whereas she always seems so cheerful otherwise.
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Santé – Love in a different form
Jesse and Maartje, a couple in their early 30s, report that they no longer see each other as lovers. "It just feels like that's gone," Jesse says.
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Santé – Perimenopause
Fais and Jette, a couple in their mid-forties, have been together for a long time. They always got along very well together.

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