Episode description
‘I can’t trust you again until I understand you‘
Annette Burgers, Holland’s infidelity expert, interviews Jolien Spoelstra, psychologist, sexologist, couples therapist, columnist and author. The conversation is about infidelity and the recovery afterwards. About the affair and how we can look at it from different perspectives: from the systemic perspective, from the angle of attachment theory, or from any another angle…. Because it’s not always the case that an affair stems from a bad relationship or because the people involved have attachment issues. But what does play a role?